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Has Christmas lost its way?

I know it might seem like a peculiar question, but when you truly consider it, the original essence of Christmas – the celebration of Christ’s birth – appears to have faded into the background. Even the secondary virtues of peace and goodwill towards all seem to have been relegated to a distant memory.

Do you remember Christmas as a child? I certainly do. The allure of toys at the grand market in Jamaica was undeniable, but what truly lingers in my memory are the communal gatherings: the joyous celebrations at church, the festive cheer at school, and the heartwarming family reunions. I reminisce about the friendly competitions among neighbours to create the most dazzling holiday displays, often crafted with homemade decorations. I remember the heartfelt gestures of kindness towards those less fortunate, sharing our Christmas meals, and offering a slice of cake to neighbours, community members, and church brethren. Christmas was a time to celebrate the greatest gift to humanity and, in turn, offer our own best gifts: our time, our presence, our hospitality, and our compassion for others.

Somewhere along the way, the focus shifted from giving to getting. We now expect the most extravagant and trendy gifts, while our children demand the latest gadgets. We give presents only on the expectation of reciprocity. Moreover, businesses have capitalised on the holiday season, bombarding us with advertisements as early as October, enticing us to purchase new furniture, clothing, and countless other items. Even restaurants have introduced special holiday menus, hoping to exploit our fear of missing out. And it works…very well.

The relentless cycle of “buy, buy, buy” has consumed Christmas, along with many other cherished traditions. Greed and materialism have eclipsed the true spirit of the season, in keeping with a broader societal trend of prioritising material possessions over spiritual, emotional, and relational values. Naturally, when we remove value and meaning from the equation, we leave behind a vacuum that must be filled. More often than not, it is filled with consumerism, debauchery, and greed, which leave us feeling increasingly empty and dissatisfied. And the cycle continues.

I’m not a Grinch, and I believe Christmas is a wonderful time for celebration. However, it’s crucial to remember who and what we are celebrating and resist the temptation to succumb to excessive consumerism. Take a moment to really enjoy the carols and reacquaint yourself with the story of Christ’s birth. Then, prioritize giving over getting, whether it’s your time, a homemade treat, or a simple act of kindness. In these especially challenging economic times, spare a thought for those who have it worse than you. Find Christmas again.